So I'm trying out this tumblr thing..
I will still be posting on this blog, however, I will post radom pictures and quotes on tumblr if you want to check it out!
Here's the link:
http://jvallieres14.tumblr.com/
Have a good week!
XXOX, J.
Sunday, November 27, 2011
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
I'm Not Sure if I'm Normal But...
The other day, I was talking to an old friend. We were talking about relationships and I told him that I have changed my whole outlook on them. He asked me how so. My reply almost surprised me, but I realized that it was the most honest answer I think I've ever given:
"Well, I think that you should never compromise yourself or anything you believe in for a relationship. You shouldn't devote your entire life and most of your time to just one person. You shouldn't let anyone tell you what to do and if your significant other is stopping you or preventing you or holding you back from doing what you want, you need to let them go. Life's too short to put too much effort into a relationship. If you're not happy, move on. If you need to fix something, it's not worth it. And people never change, no matter how often they said they would or how much you want them to. I'm almost 20, that's way too young to be focused on just one person. And if I have to focus on just one person, it's gonna be me. There's so much I want to do and so many places I want to go (not visit, but go) and I won't let anyone stand in my way. It's pretty selfish of me, I know. But if there's anything I've learned from my past, it's that sometimes you have to be selfish. When you give in, you give up."
Anyways, I just thought I'd share that, and I'd also like to share the link to my new student blog where I will be posting about my student experience at Laurentian University: http://blog.laurentian.ca/students/
XXOX, J.
"Well, I think that you should never compromise yourself or anything you believe in for a relationship. You shouldn't devote your entire life and most of your time to just one person. You shouldn't let anyone tell you what to do and if your significant other is stopping you or preventing you or holding you back from doing what you want, you need to let them go. Life's too short to put too much effort into a relationship. If you're not happy, move on. If you need to fix something, it's not worth it. And people never change, no matter how often they said they would or how much you want them to. I'm almost 20, that's way too young to be focused on just one person. And if I have to focus on just one person, it's gonna be me. There's so much I want to do and so many places I want to go (not visit, but go) and I won't let anyone stand in my way. It's pretty selfish of me, I know. But if there's anything I've learned from my past, it's that sometimes you have to be selfish. When you give in, you give up."
Anyways, I just thought I'd share that, and I'd also like to share the link to my new student blog where I will be posting about my student experience at Laurentian University: http://blog.laurentian.ca/students/
XXOX, J.
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